The main issue is where do we go to best fulfill this innate aspect of who we are designed to be if not to the Designer and Infinitely glorious God himself?
Like Christ but different. How does it matter?
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Is there a connection between life and love? If so, what is it? To help us gain a better understanding, let's define our terms.
Love -
is recognizing someone elses value, worth, significance, and treating them accordingly. This isn't about what we get out of someone or something or only about how we feel about them but how we treat them and show them we feel. As DC Talk - the former Christian band - says, love is a verb.
You could characterize this in several ways; cherishing someone, treating them with honor, dignity, importance; as worthwhile; willingly giving up something you value - be that time or other resources - to show someone you value them more than what you gave up.
Love at the highest level is always sacrificial - giving up something - but doesn't necessarily feel sacrificial because we love (value) the one we are giving it up for i.e. who we are showing love to. As John said,
"For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome."
And what are the greatest commands? To love God with all we are and have and our neighbor as ourselves.
Though true love is sacrificial it is ultimately something we are glad to do, just as Christ was glad to love us sacrificially even though it was painful. The greater the pain the greater indication of our valuing that which we made a sacrifice for.
How a loving parent cares for their child would be a classic example. Parents pour thousands of hours and dollars into raising their children yet we wouldn't have it any other way. Though it requires a ton of effort and is hard at times, it is a sacrifice we gladly make because we love our kids.
In this same way, our heavenly Father loves us. He gave up something of infinite value - His Son - so He could have us and share His life with us.
Life -
is knowing and experiencing our worth, value, significance, etc. When we do, we "come alive" because we feel most valued and significant... in a word, we feel ¹loved.
Giving life to someone is to acknowledge their worth, value, and significance through our words or deeds. To do this for others brings life to them.
How we do this can be expressed in many ways. Giving them something valuable - such as our time, attention, resources, efforts - to serve them. Telling them how important they are to us, how much we value and appreciate them and backing it with actions.
So you could say love and life are the flip sides of the same coin of value. Love is giving value and life is receiving it. Valuing is what they have in common; either giving it or receiving it.
But where do these notions of life and love come from?
God is the source of life because he is the most significant and valuable of all beings or things. And therefore He is most worthy of our love and praise i.e. of being recognized and treated as most valuable, most worth being admired, praised, cherished, worshipped, honored, exalted (glorified).
When God calls us to honor or glorify him, he is saying value me, love me above all other things or persons.
Why? Because he is more valuable than all other things or persons since everything else that is, comes from, is sustained by, and points back to Him. He alone is the Alpha and Omega.
"How great are God's riches! How deep are his wisdom and knowledge! Who can explain his decisions? Who can understand his ways? As the scripture says: “Who knows the mind of the Lord? Who is able to give him advice? Who has ever given him anything, so that he had to pay it back?” For all things were created by him, and all things exist through him and for him. To God be the glory for ever! Amen." - Romans 11:33-36 GNB
Because this is who God is - the source (Alpha), the means, and the end (Omega) of all things - to value him as such is to experience our greatest sense of value, for we are like him i.e. in His image and made to share in and experience his glory, majesty, beauty, worth, significance, etc.
We enjoy him because He made us like himself so we could. Like Him, we can give and receive honor and value in and through him; so we can feel, experience, and bathe in His significance, worth, glory, etc. In so doing we experience our own significance, worth, and glory.
For us to feel His worth, we too must experience our own significance in doing so. Our sense of significance comes from partaking of and participating in His.
In this way, we are like God. God's sense of significance comes in Him valuing Himself within the community of Father and Son, in, by, and through the Spirit of infinite love.
We were made like him so we too could participate in this community of love in the same way He does.
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Why are relationships important?
What is the fountain and foundation of relationship?
Why do we long for relationship?
What is the love, life, Spirit and essence of God
God is non-stop love with or without us.
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¹The only reason we can feel loved-valued is that we are like God who is a community of love among and within the Father, Son, and Spirit. He is thereby the most lovely and valuable of all beings. This triune God created us like Himself so that we could partake of and delight in Him.
When we understand and recognize God's value of us, we are able to function as designed, regardless of if or when others value us. Unlike the approval we receive from other finite creatures, God's value of us is infinite (because He is Infinite) and certain (because it is not secured by our performance, but Christ's). The value others have for us and the value we have for ourselves is not; it is fickle and inconsistent at best and therefore inadequate. Long term, it is insufficient i.e. it simply doesn't work.When you are wronged you are being devalued i.e. you're being treated as unimportant - insignificant, worthless; as if you don't matter.
Why is this wrong? Because you do matter; you have value and significance.
Why are ¹we valuable and significant?
Because God is the most valuable and most significant of all, and He made us like himself - in His image. Therefore, we have intrinsic value.
Our intrinsic value is not based on something you or I do but who we are, who God created us to be i.e. like Himself - in His image.
Why did God make us this way?
So we can participate in who He is - as the most significant and valuable being of all - in order to partake of and enjoy the eternal bliss (happiness) within the community of Father and Son in, by, and through the Spirit.
And when we do, we reflect His value and significance back to Him and out to others like nothing else in creation i.e. only we are created in His image. The only other being described in this way is the Son of God.
To treat someone (who is like God) with honor and dignity - which is rightfully theirs as God's image-bearer - honors God and them for who they truly are, i.e. as significant and valuable. God being the most high, most valuable and significant of all, and humanity being like him.
Our most basic value has to do with who we are, who we were created to be by the infinitely valuable/supreme God, not in what we do. We can only do, because of who we are 1st.
And we can do as we were designed to only if and when empowered by God's Love-Spirit.
Our value may be expressed and displayed by what we do but is not the grounds of it. God and who he made us to be, is the basis of our value.
When we see this we understand why loving God with all we are and have and our neighbor as ourselves is the 1st and 2nd greatest commandment and why the 2nd follows the 1st.
Everything about who we are and what we do must start with God, and return back to Him - for from him, through him, and to him are all things. To him be all glory (honor) forever! Amen!
In summary, there are 4 reasons we are valuable and significant!
1. God is a being of infinite value and significance; we are like Him. This is who we are and has nothing to do with our actions i.e. what we ¹do.
2. Because we are like God we can partake of and enjoy His value and significance in a way no other being - other than himself - can.
3. And we can bring glory (honor) and joy to God by enjoying, trusting, and living as He designed i.e. in union and faithful pursuit and enjoyment of Him and His directions...
4. Thereby reflecting God's value and significance to others i.e. loving our neighbor as we love ourselves.
Because this is true of all men and women before they come to Christ - i.e. this is how God "hard wired" us - they can reflect Him in a significant way once they are restored to a right relationship with Him and indwelt and empowered by his Love/Spirit.
They can bear good fruit thereby reflecting and honoring God - their infinitely valuable Creator - like nothing else in Creation can, since nothing else is created like God; in His image.
We alone are like God - in his image. To not be treated accordingly is a huge violation/ offense against us - who we are - and against our Creator who made us this way.
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¹though it does explain how and why we live for His honor and glory.
3 When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,
4 what is man that you are mindful of him,
and the son of man that you care for him?
5 Yet you have made him a little lower than the
¹heavenly beings
(Elohim ) and crowned him with glory and honor.