"free" will or heavily influenced?

I find human behavior fascinating - my own included e.g. "...why did I do THAT?!" 

In light of this, I found the below video fascinating.

This demonstrates that even though we have "free wills," (everyone made their own choice to stand up in the below video) our wills are heavily (if not completely) influenced by our need for acceptance/approval/ love - or at least by what we BELIEVE we must do to gain or achieve these. Click the following to see...

https://youtu.be/MEhSk71gUCQ

Being influenced for good

How do we counter being tossed about by our own weakness and need for approval and submitting to the actions of others as in the video above?

When our identity is strongly anchored in Christ - he fully loves and accepts us no matter what we go through or what others think, do, or say - we are not so easily swayed.  The more grounded we are in his love the less likely we are to be swayed. This is likely why dictatorships do not like "religious" beliefs and most aggressively try to oppress and outlaw Christianity (or other faiths). We are not as easily influenced by their dictates - because we are more influenced by God's. God is a direct threat to raw unbridled ¹government power and control. 

How much of your behavior is dictated by what OTHERS think, do, or say? e.g. When the polls go contrary to your views, does that affect you and make you reconsider your position? What if you are the only one that takes the view you do? If you are not influenced, you are either very principled, with strong convictions or you have a strong personality and are more a leader than a follower (the former usually produces the latter).

If you are anchored in Christ, this will instill in you a strength you did not have before to do what you are convinced (believe) is right in the face of opposition (knowing there are eternal rewards, no matter what, instills great courage and steadfastness). This is the essence of leadership; courage in the face of great opposition. 

For a discussion on how our "wanter" is broken, not our "chooser" click here.

For a discussion on the role of government for a follower of Christ click here. 

For a discussion on how we find the strength to deny ourselves, click here.