Heaven and hell...literal?

Our deep, insatiable, and constant longings for love/life can not be adequately explained physically. This is a clue we are far more than mere physical beings. These longings are a hint or indication that we do not cease to exist simply because our present bodies do. 

We long for something permanent - everlasting/ eternal - instead of temporary. Once we get a "taste" of love, we never want it to stop but want more. 

Longing for satisfaction without the ability or means to obtain it is the essence of hell. I would suggest that a never-ending longing and burning desire to fulfill ourselves and derive a sense of meaning through our independent efforts (i.e. without God), while no longer having access to the good gifts of God we now enjoy, is the essence of hell.

"Hell on earth" is seeking to find fulfillment in something other than God but not finding it. Even when we think we have, it never works or lasts long term.

Not just present but eternal longing

Longing for fulfillment does not cease simply because our existence on earth does. We are more than mere physical beings.

Hell is continuing in the state of longing after this life is over, with no means of obtaining what we need or hope of relief.

Though hell is depicted as a physical burning, I propose it is also - if not exclusively - an emotional/ spiritual burning that is so great the pain goes beyond the physical and may, in fact, be even greater. Think in terms of solitary confinement in utter darkness with nothing to distract yourself. No food to satisfy your hunger, no water to quench your thirst, no "toys" - creature comforts - to distract you or occupy your time. All you have is your thoughts and memories of enjoying the good things you use to have access to or endlessly replaying a poor choice others made that hurt you or you made that hurt others.

This may be hard to grasp but only because we do not understand the powerful void left within us by the absence of God. We are spiritually "shut down" - dead to seeing God as the Source of infinite love that he is - no longer having access to or use of the good gifts of His creation to keep our spiritual and emotional longings in check i.e. to numb the pain.

In order to contain a large object there must be a large container - spiritually speaking. Nothing is greater than God so the void within us must be immense. Far greater than we now realize because we mask it through use/exploitation of the creation - others and the good gifts of life. 

Does evil "send" us to hell?

Does doing evil send people to hell or is it evidence they are already on the road there? Isn't this simply an indication we are already in a state of rebellion from our dependence on the Source of life and all things - and therefore evidence of our alienation and separation from Him?

The good news is Christ has provided the remedy i.e. our rebellion no longer has to separate us from God now or in eternally; our refusal to accept God's free offer and solution does. Isn't the heart of evil our ongoing rebellious distrust of God resulting in destructive/evil behavior? God offers us freedom from all of this, yet we refuse it. 

Doing evil does not necessarily send people to hell as much as it's evidence they are a child of hell and already heading there unless they are restored back to God, our Designer and Source of love, meaning, purpose, and all things.

John 3:16  "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

John 3:17  For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.

John 3:18  Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.

John 3:19  And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil.

John 3:20  For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.

John 3:21  But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God."

The essence of heaven.

The essence of heaven is the complete unhindered and unfettered presence of the God of infinite love, glory, joy, delight, and bliss. Think of those best moments you have had that if they were any better, you would burst with joy and gratitude, then multiply that many times over without interruption and constantly increasing. This only begins to give us a glimpse of what heaven will be like.

However, we cannot and will not experience God's full presence without several things occurring first. 

• The animosity and alienation from our rebellious independence and distrust of God are removed (reconciliation). This addresses our heart towards God i.e. we are no longer his enemies aka totally untrusting, rebellious creatures.

• The just condemnation for our rebellious independence and distrust of God is removed (judgment). This addresses God's posture towards us i.e. He is and no longer needs to be our judge. Christ was judged in our place. 

• The complete righteousness of God -- earned for us by Christ -- is assigned and credited to us, establishing our good standing before God (justification). 

• The complete and eventual *removal of our propensity to distrust God and to operate independently of him (glorification). 

• Complete freedom from our mortality and the corruption of our present existence (glorification), no aging, sickness, or death.

Until we understand what Christ entered into for us; taking upon himself our hell so we might not have to, hell will appear unfair and make no sense - yet no one ever asks, how fair was the suffering of Christ who did nothing wrong and everything right. And He did all this for us because we weren't able to. 

Since he did, if we refuse his offer, would this not be the greatest insult and rejection of His love. Our being left to our own devices would be totally just.

The issue isn't if hell is unfair but that we refuse to accept his going through hell for us so we might not have to i.e. it is not as if there is no solution. We are only bound for hell if we refuse that solution He freely offers. God not only does not wish for us to go there, he did everything necessary to keep us from going.

 

In short, Christ took on what was not rightfully his - total condemnation and rejection - so he could give us what was not rightfully ours - perfect love and acceptance by His Father.

However, people who don't know Christ or refuse his offer are choosing hell every day. They are choosing separation from God which simply continues on into eternity. How you may ask? By using creation to attempt to fill the void left by the Creator's absence and refusing God's free offer to restore us back to Him.

We now have access to all the gifts of creation yet without acknowledging the Creator, Giver, Provider, and Sustainer of those gifts (Rom 1:21-25). In eternity they will continue to refuse to acknowledge the Creator but will no longer have access to all the good gifts of creation we presently enjoy, be that the use of our own personal skills and gifts or those we find all around us...the hearing, seeing, smelling, feeling and tasting of created things etc. 

Hell is our choice.

"Hell is your freely chosen identity, based on something other than God, going on forever." - Tim Keller, former pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New York City. 

The essence of "hell" is the absence of God and His love, which is also part of our present state of existence. 

2 Thes 1: 9 They will suffer the punishment of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might,

The hard reality is we all are presently experiencing the absence of God in the ultimate sense -- none of us are fully in his loving presence yet, nor can we be in our present state. We are therefore in a kind of hell now to a limited degree i.e. In varying degrees we all experience suffering and pain now.

Intuitively we get this. Every time we experience overwhelming pain and suffering it is a reminder that Hell exists and is real. Who hasn't felt or said "that was hell" after going through some extremely painful and difficult circumstance -- yet, oddly, we have a hard time accepting the continuation of this very same state of pain and suffering after we leave this life?

At the same time, we all are also experiencing God's loving presence to a limited degree i.e. heaven. Whether we trust him or not we experience something of him through the many gifts we now enjoy. For those who have accepted God's offer of reconciliation, His Spirit of infinite, endless love also indwells us. 

Our present existence in this beautiful yet broken world is a kind of in-between state. We experience something of the joy of who God is but also the pain of not yet being fully reunited with Him in His infinite love. 

For those who have entrusted themselves to Christ and therefore love him, they experience heaven now to some degree by his presence in and through his Spirit that dwells within.

When we are finally in God's full and unfettered presence there will no longer be any pain, suffering, or crying, only joy, and endless ever-growing bliss. But not until then. Rev 21:4  

Everything good in this life that causes joy and delight points to the goodness of God and is only a prelude to the uninterrupted good/joy/glory to come for those who love him.

Everything bad in this life points to our brokenness and separation from God and the prospect of continuing in that separation for those who reject him.

If heaven is a real place, hell must also be -- just as darkness must exist because light exists i.e. darkness is simply the absence of light -- for heaven is the presence of God and hell is the absence of his loving presence.

So our present existence is as much of Heaven as someone who rejects/distrusts God will ever experience and as much of Hell a lover/worshiper of God will ever experience.

Do all of us feel God's absence? 

Does a man born blind understand sight or sense its absence? If no one told him he was blind (and everyone else around him was also blind) would he not think his condition normal? 

Most are not aware of the void of God's absence for two primary reasons. 

1. We are disconnected from God and therefore also spiritually dead to God, seeking only what we can see, smell, taste, feel, and hear.

2. Proof (and also the result) of this is we have and use the good gifts of God to mask or numb that void/deadness. Not unlike a blind man groping around, experiencing something of the reality of this world, while never fully enjoying it.

If our life is built around having and enjoying the good gifts of God and not God himself, the Giver of those gifts, we will leave this life without either and experience the full force of the void/emptiness now within us due to God's absence. This is the essence of hell.

For a further discussion on how hell is a continuation of our current path click here

For a discussion of whether we are rebels to God click here.

For a discussion on whether God's wrath is reasonable click here

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¹I would argue this removal is organic and not mechanical. Our inclination away from God even as His children, will be fully subdued or overpowered once we see him face to face i.e. we will be like him when we see him as he is i.e. no longer through a glass darkly but in the fullness of his glory. This will result in the longing of our hearts being satisfied for the first time. What (more correctly WHO) has been missed and what our hearts have longed for all our lives will now but right in front of us. How can we long after anything else once we are in the presence of perfection and perfect love? 

Obedience... does it matter or not?

For the child of God, two seemingly opposing principles must be tenaciously and equally held on to (believed) and kept in balance.

1. There is nothing we can do that will ever make us acceptable to God or enable us to participate in his love.

2. Living according to God's will/directions/commands is (a) most honoring to God (b) according to our design and (c) the most freeing way to live and experience all God has designed us to experience.

To say it another way 

Principle #1 is saying our righteousness or living right does not matter at all.

Principle #2 is saying our righteousness or right living absolutely matters (in fact it is all-important in our bringing God the greatest possible glory and experiencing God and all He desires to be for us).

How can these both be true and work together?

It all depends on the context and setting you are considering. 

Let's take a closer look.

# 1  There is nothing we can do that will ever make us acceptable to God or enable us to fully participate in his love.

Why? 

Two primary reasons (which include some additional underlying truths). 

1. Who God is:

   • All things came to be by Him and all things continue to exist by him         

      i.e. Everything depends on God. He is Creator & sustainer of all things. 

   • God is also holy, perfect, and righteous. 

      a. Because he is the Creator and because he is unyieldingly holy, He rightfully deserves our highest regard and our complete and total allegiance and worship. 

      b. Because of these things, He rightfully calls us to love him with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength and our neighbors as ourselves. 

Anything short of conducting ourselves accordingly is out of line with reality i.e. who God is, who we are, and is therefore unacceptable.

2. Who we are:

We are in his image designed to be in a relationship with him but rejected (and still reject) Him as our Creator and sustainer resulting in our spiritual blindness and deadness i.e. we are dead to seeing him for who He truly is. We are unable to live for him (unaided) as we ought and were designed to.  

We therefore simply do not have it in us to do as He calls us to do and be who He originally created us to be. We can never do enough. So there's no point in even trying. 

#2 Living according to God's will/directions/commands is (a) most honoring to God (b) according to our design and (c) the most freeing way to live and experience all God has designed us to experience.

Why? Faithfulness, obedience to God, living to honor Him, etc. is  what we were created for and why we exist. It is living according to who we are and how we were designed to experience fullness of joy and life.   

True life is in God alone who is life at its source. Obedience to his directions is living in alignment with his good and perfect will, putting us not only in harmony with Him and who he is, but also operating according to who he has designed us to be.

A train is not somehow freed by jumping off the track but in fact will bog down in a ditch or field or run off a cliff, crash, and burn because it's no longer operating according to its design, i.e. it is off the tracks it was made to run on. 

Who would know better how the train best operates if not the designer of the train? 

Because he tells us how to best operate we must listen if we are to experience our greatest good and bring him greatest glory.

So how do these two principles come together?

In a word, Christ!

Christ, the eternal Son of God, stepped out of eternity, took on the flesh and blood of humanity, and dwelt among us as a man. 

And not only so but he lived out his life as a man wholly for the glory of his Father, in perfect harmony and obedience with him as we (humanity) were designed to live. 

After living this perfect life he allowed himself to suffer the consequences of our not living wholly for the glory of his Father. In doing so he satisfied the legal requirement to live perfectly according to God's glory and our design. 

He offered his righteous life in exchange for our unrighteous one so we are no longer required to live a righteous life to be received and embraced by his Father. 

In so doing he removed the barrier between us and God for failing to live as He designed us and calls us to. Now His Father's love is freely extended and poured out on us, as if we had lived perfectly for God's glory ourselves. 

His offer of right standing and uninterrupted love (the very same love the Father has for his Son) is now ours as a gift, if and when we receive it.

In summary, God demonstrated his love for us when we deserved the opposite, providing our access to God and taking care of principle #1. 

As we see this love (for the first time) and are increasingly drawn up into it (an ongoing process) we respond more and more in love by seeking to honor him in all we do or say. Love is the life or dynamic necessary to live according to God's design and glory, enabling us to live out principle #2. To say it as the Bible does, we love him because he first loved us.

The Bible sums up these two principles in the following verses:

"There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh (i.e. attempting to live by the law to earn God's love) but according to the Spirit (i.e. seeking to obey the law out of love and gratitude to God in Christ for securing our right standing with him and his infinite love for us)." Rom 8:1-4

The Bible also touches on these contrasted principles in the following. 

1Co 10:23  "All things are lawful," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful," but not all things build up.

"All things are lawful..." simply means nothing we can do will be held against me legally because of a righteous status (legal standing) in Christ.

"not all things are helpful... not all things build up..." simply means we are designed to operate a certain way and will experience consequences for not doing so. 

The evidence of this right motive for obedience is expressed in the following

Joh 14:15  If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

1Jn 5:3  For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.

Loving ourselves… part II

More and more we hear talk about loving ourselves.

Why? My observation of myself and of others, is this comes from a deep, often unconscious, sense of feeling unloved, often connected to our ¹family of origin.  

When you grow up knowing - and believing - you are truly and deeply loved - ultimately by God but also well conveyed to those who were blessed enough to have godly loving parents - you rarely think about being loved any more than you think about eating right after a very large, satisfying meal. The more loved (valued) you feel, the less likely you will be allured by the offer of love from temporary, unhealthy, or destructive sources. To use an analogy, healthy, godly love inoculates us from catching the bug of unhealthy, fleeting love. When we know we are infinitely loved, we become givers instead of takers, comforters of others instead of those who seek comfort. 

We all have a deep sense of feeling unloved simply because we are disconnected and separated from our Creator - the source of love and ²life Himself. However, this sense will be more or less exaggerated and felt depending on how much true sacrificial love we did or did not receive from our parents.

People usually resort to self-love because they have been deeply hurt and ³disappointed by others. And in truth, not even the most loving parents or any other person can give us the love we were designed for. Only God can. As a result, we are more inclined to no longer trust others to come through for us. We believe we can only trust ourselves, so this is where we go for love. As meager as self-love may be, it is better than nothing, plus we have some control over it. At least we feel we do.

Our ability to trust - or lack of it - starts with our parents. We are already naturally inclined to distrust. It was the disposition of our original parents (Adam and Eve) and continues to be ours. But our earthly parents help lay the foundation on which trust is either nurtured or damaged more. 

Because of the breakdown of the family unit at large and the huge significance of the support (or lack) it offers, there is an increasing number of children that grow up experiencing a greater sense of missing love, resulting in increased efforts to self-love. The greater the breakdown, the greater the effort. Hence the rise of Narcissism, the appeal of self-love, and the age of the "selfie."

The challenge, however, is when all is said and done, we are designed for infinite love. A finite being - you and I (including our parents) - can never give us infinite love i.e. an infinite need can never be met by a finite solution. Only infinite love will do.

Though our parents are our first and most significant relationship through which our self-concept is shaped, ultimately no parent can give us what we were designed for; infinite, uninterrupted love. 

Since perfect love (God's) is available to all of us, to not accept it is on us individually, not our parents. We may be damaged because of inadequate parental love but this is only an opportunity to experience and appreciate God's love all the more - if we can learn to trust it.  

Loved well...or not

When a child is loved well (consistently) by parents who also know they are loved well - due to a strong sense of love of feeling loved by the Creator - and the parents clearly convey to their child the reason they love well is because of God, the child will easily transfer their sense of love and trust from their parents to God when they eventually move out on their own and no longer under the direct care of their parents.

God never fails even if others do

The beauty of God's love is even if and when someone does not receive healthy love and support from their family of origin, God also uses this to show the greatness of his love by contrast.

Psa 27:10  Although my father and my mother have forsaken me, yet the Lord will take me up [adopt me as His child]. Amplified version.
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¹However, the root cause is we are all alienated from our Creator, the source of love and life. If we are designed to be in a loving relationship with our Creator and are absent that relationship, we will always have a sense of feeling unloved no matter how loving our parents or others are. 

²though we still have access to and use of created things and use them as God/love substitutes -- which includes other creatures i.e. animate and inanimate.

³The beauty of being a believing parent is God's forgiveness of us and unrelenting love for us frees us to acknowledge our mistakes and ask for our child's forgiveness when we make them -- and we will make them. Being a good parent isn't about being perfect; it's about being real and demonstrating the love and grace of God in our brokenness. Our brokenness becomes an opportunity to demonstrate how the grace of God works in our lives as imperfect bearers of God's image (and in this sense the same as our kids - we all need and are recipients of grace) and therefore can be the same in the child's life as well. 

Believing we are loved

God telling us we are fully loved does not necessarily mean we believe we are fully loved. We can read and clearly see where God says he loves us and even comprehend the reasons for how and why, but that is not necessarily the same as actually believing it. 

If we are to experience and fully participate in the love that God truly has for us we must accept his assessment, fully believing it is true and reject our own or that of others (including Satan, the great accuser and deceiver).

Indications of unbelief…

How do we know if we are not fully believing? If you ever go through a hardship that causes you to question his wisdom, power, presence, or care/love for you; that very questioning is due to unbelief. I am not saying it's uncommon but it's unbelief nevertheless. 

Or if you choose to follow your directions over his directions, this also tells us we trust ourselves more than God; especially when he has clearly shown you an area you do this that you weren't previously aware of.

This questioning or choosing does not actually stop God's love, but it does prevent us from experiencing and fully participating in it.

Possible causes…

This happens for various reasons but perhaps the biggest reason is it is simply too hard for us to accept love offered to us that has nothing to do with whether we are lovely or not i.e. all our experience of being loved prior to God's love is based almost exclusively on our being "good enough" to be loved (the exceptions might be loving parents and family for those blessed enough to have such people in their life). 

It is hard to comprehend that God's love is based solely on someone else being good enough for us, on our behalf i.e. that someone removed the barrier that obstructed God's love for us and we had nothing to do with or for it. It is fully ours because of someone else's efforts. All we must do is believe it - accept it.

Our having trouble accepting Gods love can also be due to being mistreated so severely that we can not believe we are ever worthy of being loved.

Whatever the reason, we are called to believe God loves us not only because he says so but took action to prove it i.e. he told us the reason Christ came and died is because of God's love. In light of this action, the only question now is if God is for us who can be against us? 

What do you say? Do you believe?

Longing… Painful or Pleasant?

Longing for meaning, purpose, and happiness is both painful and pleasant. 

Too long for something is to desire what you do not have. 

To not have what you desire is to feel lack or emptiness. 

To lack or be empty is not pleasant but painful.

However, there is also no longing without hope.

If we have no hope, we cannot allow ourselves to feel longing out fear of not getting what we long for.

Without hope, our longing must be shut down or numbed or it will drive us to despair.  The reason people commit suicide is they lose hope. 

If we have hope of obtaining what we long for, we pursue it with excitement and anticipation of fulfillment. The greater the hope, the greater the excitement and anticipation. 

For these reasons, longing is both painful and pleasant at the same time.

Rom 8:24  For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? 25  But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. 

Rom 15:13  May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope. 

Changed by love...literally

God's love for us is the means of our transformation/sanctification/ spiritual formation.

Prior to eternity, we experience his love *primarily by faith. In our present existence, we are called to believe that he loves us no matter what we are going through. The main proof of his love is the past work of Christ on our behalf.  

*I say primarily by faith because God occasionally demonstrates his love through our experience and circumstances. But even these we benefit from by faith (do you know for sure a positive experience or circumstance is from the hand of God? Yes, but by faith i.e. it could be things went well by luck or happenstance. Of course, we know for the true believer there is no such thing as luck or happenstance. But we know this by faith as well) and these are still secondary to the demonstration of his love for us in Christ's past work on our behalf. 

Once we go into eternity we experience his love firsthand by sight. As we continue to gaze upon him and take in his love we are transformed and our capacity for that love expands throughout eternity.

An illustration:

What is fascinating about talents shows like "American Idol" and "The Voice" is the transformation that occurs with the contestants as they continue to progress in the competition. As they do their view of themselves changes. Often after years of rejection and no recognition, they are beaten down and begin to doubt they have anything worthwhile to offer. They must believe against all odds to continue. 

But as they progress on the show they are confirmed in their belief/confidence and begin to have that belief reinforced that they really are capable after all and do have something valuable that others want. They begin to believe in their own value and talent. As they do you notice they become more relaxed, more confident and even more creative and productive (and if they recognize their gifts are from God, more humble). They begin to perform in ways they didn't know they were capable of. In short, they actually look better and perform better. The full talent that they possess blossoms more and more. 

This is a picture of the transformation that occurs with the child of God as they begin to realize God really does love and value them.

The big difference, of course, is our value is not based on our talents and efforts but ultimately on that of another i.e. on Christ's efforts on our behalf.

Hating evil or loving your enemies?

Hate is not necessarily bad. To hate and fight against that - i.e. evil - which destroys others we are entrusted to love, protect, and care for, is actually loving those being destroyed by what we hate.

Nevertheless, it is not our job individually or collectively as the church to repay evil with evil.

While it is legitimate to call out, expose, and even resist evil (harmful and destructive behavior); to exercise retaliation or retribution against evil is not. That is God's job.

However, how that is worked out in real life is not always as cut and dried as we might prefer.

There is a tension that lies within what appears to be contradictory teachings in scripture.

There are two distinctions that need to be made to sort this out. We have to distinguish between: 

1. Self-defense vs punishment/retribution. 

And also between 

2. Personal vs civil punishment/retribution.

I will address personal vs civil punishment/retribution first.

God has appointed civil authorities to punish wrongdoing per Romans 13. So the punishment of wrongdoing is legitimate and necessary. But Scripture indicates that punishment of evil is assigned by God only to governing authorities and not just anyone in general. Governing authorities are appointed by God to reward good and punish evil (Rom 13:3-4; I Pet 2:14).

On the personal/private level, however, Christ teaches us (as private individuals and followers of Christ) to love our enemies, forgive those who do evil against us, and to turn the other cheek. 

These are two very different ways of handling evil. To resolve this we must understand that scripture distinguishes between the civil and personal (or public and private if you will) in addressing evil. 

As an example, during his campaign speeches, the crowds called for Trump to lock up Clinton for two reasons. 1. They (as individual private citizens) do not have the legitimate authority to do so. 2. Therefore they were appealing to Trump to do so (a not yet, but soon to be appointed civil authority). 

This is the same reason a policeman can legitimately take a life when a private citizen can not, assuming an officer is doing so legitimately within their allowed sphere of authority. 

Only civil authorities must do so and only within the boundaries clearly laid out in scripture. If they do not, they are no longer operating legitimately and must be tried by the very same laws they are authorized to enforce. For more on this click here. 

We often confuse these two. Because we, as private individuals/citizens, are instructed to love our enemies, we may think there is never a justification for calling out or punishing evil. That everyone must always "turn the other cheek" (and on a personal level this is correct). Some (those in civil authority) however are appointed by God to "take up the sword" and exercise or carry out God's judgment for wrongdoing on those who violate His law.

Some would say we are unloving if we desire and call for justice. However, wanting civil justice is not only right but we are encouraged and called to pursue righteousness (Mat 5:6) personally and as a nation/state. But it is not our role to enforce it as private citizens. On the public or civil level this is the role of civil authorities i.e. why they exist and at times must legitimately carry out this role.

Now to the second point regarding self-defense vs punishment/retribution.

Self-defense and protecting persons or things God has entrusted to my care is different from punishment or retribution. If someone breaks into my home and seeks to harm my family I am responsible to protect them and have every right to do so by whatever means necessary. Even taking the life when necessary of the one seeking to harm my family or me. This is not necessarily punishment or retribution. I am not acting out of revenge (no harm by an offender has has occurred yet) but out of defense of my loved ones as well as self-defense. The end result might be the same in both (the taking of another life) but the motive is entirely different. Protecting loved ones or even self defense could be considered a form of  stewardship i.e. faithfully caring for that which God has entrusted to me.

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If you wish to see a further discussion of evil and the necessity of judgment, I discuss these in the following two posts...

* The necessity of judgment.

* Is God angry at evil

I also discuss further my understanding of Romans 13 at …

* Obeying the authorities