Monday, August 10, 2026
The devil is a prowling lion
Tuesday, July 7, 2026
malicious intent or unintentional incompetence
There are people who definitely hurt others out of willful and malicious intent deliberately. But not all. ³I would guess most don't.
I know this is true for myself. Often I have hurt someone, not even knowing how. If I didn't know how I hurt them, clearly I didn't have bad intentions in doing so.
Why does someone assume the worst behind hurtful actions toward them? It is usually because of past hurt(s) they experienced that they have buried and not let go of. As a result, ²they harbor bitterness and are jaded towards anyone who hurts or mistreats them (or hurts those they care about), and they assume the worst intentions behind the offender's actions.
When an offense occurs, does intent matter?
Absolutely. Even our legal system distinguishes between premeditated murder and manslaughter. As a result, the former is a greater offense that carries a greater punishment.
The bible also makes this distinction..
"And that servant who knew his master’s will but did not get ready or act according to his will, will receive a severe beating. But the one who did not know, and did what deserved a beating, will receive a light beating. Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more." - Luke 12:47-48 ESV
The good news is that whether we hurt people and cause them loss or harm intentionally or unknowingly, there is one who took on and experienced the full consequences of the pain we cause others so we don't have to. His name is Jesus. Have you met Him yet? If not, He'd like to meet you.
For a discussion on the underlying primary wound we all experience, click here
Being a victim or playing the victim? Click here
Footnotes:
¹To assume the worst possible motive behind an offense may be more an indication of our own intentions, and that we are vindictive vs ignorant because we harbor bitterness over a past offense and have not let it go, i.e., because of bitterness, someone may have malicious intent behind their offensive behavior more than someone who is not bitter. As a result, they assume and project this same motive to others.
Tuesday, June 18, 2024
Work out your own salvation
Since we (humanity in general) are designed to experience our greatest sense of worth and true identity in God, but turned away from Him, we now seek to regain this by any means possible outside of and apart from Hpim.
"Therefore, my beloved... work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure." - Phil 2:12-13
This passage does not say work for your salvation but work out your salvation that is already yours i.e. live out who you are - who God has made you to be in and through Christ - i.e. act as someone who is perfectly righteous (and loved) because of Christ's efforts on your behalf, not as someone trying desperately to make yourself righteous to win the acceptance and approval (and love) of others... starting with God.
Who we are in Christ (our "own salvation") is what gives us the will (desire) and power to live for God's pleasure. But we must fully believe and embrace what God declares about us in Christ if we are to experience His strength in and through us.
Thursday, April 4, 2024
Forsaken and abandoned?
Yet God's greatest promise is nothing - especially suffering - will ever separate those who trust and love Christ, from his love.
God's greatest proof is sending His Son to suffer what should have been our pain so He could restore us to Himself. This will ultimately free us from all pain in eternity, if not now.
We may be certain that we are a child of God and believe He loves us simply because He proved it by sending Christ, even when we are constantly bombarded with experiences that seem to indicate otherwise.
God is not judging us nor has he abandoned us when we go through adversity. Struggles are a part of our ¹broken condition and ²the broken world we now live in (brought about by humanity's general overall rebellion).
¹And what is the nature of our existence? We are limited in our understanding and ability to gain what we most need - not only because we are not yet fully connected to God - the Source of life, love, and all things - but simply because we are limited, dependent creatures.
Friday, March 15, 2024
When we are weak we are strong
What did the Spirit do after the public announcement of Christ's ministry? He led him into the wilderness to be tested.
"Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil." - Mat 4:1
It wasn't until after this that Christ went forth in power to share the good news of His coming kingdom.
If this was necessary for Christ how much more so for us?
Paul tells us that God's power is perfected in our struggles and weakness (2 Cor 12:8-9). God even sent a messenger of Satan to harass him, not unlike God allowing Satan to inflict suffering on Job. God was in charge in both cases. If we do not understand this we will interpret God's directing us into periods of testing as ¹abandonment.
We usually don't feel like God is with us when we are in the wilderness, do we? It is usually lonely and often confusing. We are tempted to ask God, "where are you?! Why have you ¹left me?!
Yet Christ himself learned obedience through the things He suffered. If this was necessary for Christ, the perfect Son of God and man, why would or should it be different for us who are far from perfect?
Our need to learn to trust the Father is greater than Christ's - though His trust in the Father was tested far more than ours will likely ever be.
"Therefore...let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God." Heb 12:1-2
If we do not understand that God is in the test - working by and through it for our spiritual advancement - we will not be able to "count it all joy" as James exhorts, when we go through hard times. We will be unstable and tossed about in and by our distrust.
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith (trust) produces steadfastness.
For a discussion on why faith is a fight click here.
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¹Matthew 27:46 ESV
And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” that is, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”
Friday, July 14, 2023
What is the good news?
Because Christ was and is perfect in every way - and credits or assigns his perfect "track record" or status and union with the Father to us - i.e. God's love and embrace of us is perfect in every way - He loves us in the same way He loves the Son of His eternal affection; as if we were faithful to him exactly the same way Christ was, when we are (and were) not.
1. The good news (gospel) itself - God's part, i.e. he has already fully and perfectly taken care of our sinful status. We don't need to and indeed, can not do this ourselves.
2. The extent to which we believe (fully grasp) this good news - which is our part. Our understand is ongoing and always increasing if we are truly His child.
The first element - the good news - is accomplished only by God in and through Christ and is complete. Nothing can be added to it or be taken away from it. It is what God did - and does - (Rom 8:34b) through Christ and has nothing to do with our efforts, good behavior (or bad for that matter). It is 100% legally ours but ours practically (i.e. experientially) on a day-to-day basis, to the extent we receive and believe it.
The second element - our faith (trust) in this good news - is our part (our "work") regarding our relationship with God.
The effect this good news has on our day-to-day actions and conduct is small if our grasp (belief) of it is small and great if it is great.
So how do we increase our faith or remedy our unbelief?
God must first reveal to us the desperateness of our condition without Christ, i.e. how short we come in recognizing the goodness and love of God and also how desperately broken we are without Him.
And what is the condition or state we must enter into for God to reveal Himself to us most?
Humility, i.e. recognizing our desperate need of God.
*Humility is key to seeing God.
*Seeing God is key to great faith.
*Great faith is key to great pursuit of God.
God's strength manifests itself in us most the more we acknowledge our weakness. The essence of the gospel practically is strength in and through weakness - 'when I am weak, than I am strong."
This is bad news before it is good news.
The extent we are able to admit the bad news is the extent we will receive to good news
How do we not change?
If we change ("obey") because we think we must in order to be accepted by God - i.e. because of external pressure or reasons - it never lasts. True and lasting change only occurs because we want to change, i.e. it comes from self-imposed internal "pressure" i.e. motivation. To truly change we must have a genuine desire to change. And this is only by the Spirit, not human willpower.
The difference between "Cultural Christians" and grace-driven followers of Christ, click here.
The essence of God's Kingdom click here.
How God's love is conditional and unconditional click here.
Should our focus be on morality or Jesus? click here.
Tuesday, June 13, 2023
Our God is to small
Many think total dependence on God is a sign of weakness when, actually, it's more an acknowledgment of God's greatness.
In ourselves, we may be great and of great importance to others, but compared to God - who is all-seeing, all-knowing, all-powerful, all-loving, and everywhere present - we are like a single drop of water in a vast, infinite ocean. This does not mean we are invaluable or insignificant, but in contrast to him we are.Seeing God truly and clearly both humbles and dignifies us; it shrinks and expands us at the same time.
How?
By helping us see that God is our eternal foundation and the infinite, overflowing fountain of love, glory, and joy; not us.
How does pursuing God expand and dignify us?
Since we are like God - created in His image by His design - we can enter a union and communion with the Most High God in the same way (not necessarily to the same extent) as His eternally begotten Son. So in this way, we are like the Son, and the Father's love is fully ours, in the same way (John 17:23b) it is the Son's! What could be a higher and more significant (dignified) status?!!
We may be small compared to God, but, as His image bearers, the more we see God's "bigness" the bigger we become. The smaller God is - in our eyes - the smaller we become. Our increased awareness and participation in God's "bigness" increases us - makes us "bigger."
Tuesday, January 25, 2022
Who are we?
1. We are like God, the divine - in His image.
What is the nature of our relationship with God?
How do we know God? God is a person. What can be known about him on a personal level must be revealed to us by Him; just as others only truly know us to the extent we reveal ourselves to them.
God's fullest, most complete self-revelation occurred when God the Son took on human form as Immanuel (i.e. God with us) and came to live (abide) among us.
anthropology - the study of the nature and essence of humankind.
1.Without knowledge of self there is no knowledge of God
Our wisdom, in so far as it ought to be deemed true and solid Wisdom, consists almost entirely of two parts: the knowledge of God and of ourselves. But as these are connected together by many ties, it is not easy to determine which of the two precedes and gives birth to the other.
For, in the first place, no man can survey himself without forthwith (immediately) turning his thoughts towards the God in whom he lives and moves; because it is perfectly obvious, that the endowments (gifts) which we possess cannot possibly be from ourselves; nay (no), that our very being is nothing else than subsistence in (existence and maintenance by) God alone.
In the second place, those blessings which unceasingly distil (come down) to us from heaven, are like streams conducting (pointing) us to the fountain.
Here, again, the infinitude of (unlimited) good which resides in God becomes more apparent from our poverty. In particular, the miserable ruin into which the revolt of the first man has plunged us, compels us to turn our eyes upwards; not only that while hungry and famishing we may thence (thereby) ask what we want, but being aroused by fear may learn humility. For as there exists in man something like a world of misery, and ever since we were stript of the divine attire our naked shame discloses an immense series of disgraceful properties every man, being stung by the consciousness of his own unhappiness, in this way necessarily obtains at least some knowledge of God. Thus, our feeling of ignorance, vanity, want, weakness, in short, depravity and corruption, reminds us, (see Calvin on John 4: 10,) that in the Lord, and none but He, dwell the true light of wisdom, solid virtue, exuberant goodness. We are accordingly urged by our own evil things (ways/conduct) to consider the good things of God; and, indeed, we cannot aspire to Him in earnest until we have begun to be displeased with ourselves. For what man is not disposed to rest in (depend on) himself? Who, in fact, does not thus rest, so long as he is unknown to himself; that is, so long as he is contented with his own endowments, and unconscious or unmindful of his misery? Every person, therefore, on coming to the knowledge of himself, is not only urged to seek God, but is also led as by the hand to find him.
2.Without knowledge of God there is no knowledge of self
On the other hand, it is evident that man never attains to a true self-knowledge until he have previously contemplated the face of God, and come down after such contemplation to look into himself. For (such is our innate pride that...) we always seem to ourselves just, and upright, and wise, and holy, until we are convinced, by clear evidence, of our injustice, vileness, folly, and impurity. Convinced, however, we are not, if we look to ourselves only, and not to the Lord also - He being the only standard by the application of which this conviction can be produced. For, since we are all naturally prone to hypocrisy, any empty semblance (appearance) of righteousness is quite enough to satisfy us instead of righteousness itself. And since nothing appears within us or around us that is not tainted with very great impurity, so long as we keep our mind within the confines of human pollution, anything which is in some small degree less defiled delights us as if it were most pure just as an eye, to which nothing but black had been previously presented, deems (estimates) an object of a whitish, or even of a brownish hue, to be perfectly white. Nay, the bodily sense may furnish a still stronger illustration of the extent to which we are deluded in estimating the powers of the mind. If, at mid-day, we either look down to the ground, or on the surrounding objects which lie open to our view, we think ourselves endued with a very strong and piercing eyesight; but when we look up to the sun, and gaze at it unveiled, the sight which did excellently well for the earth is instantly so dazzled and confounded by the refulgence (brightness), as to oblige (compel) us to confess that our acuteness (skill) in discerning terrestrial objects is mere dimness when applied to the sun. Thus too (in the same way), it happens in estimating our spiritual qualities. So long as we do not look beyond the earth, we are quite pleased with our own righteousness, wisdom, and virtue; we address ourselves in the most flattering terms, and seem only less than demigods (insignificant or lesser gods). But should we once begin to raise our thoughts to God, and reflect what kind of Being he is, and how absolute the perfection of that righteousness, and wisdom, and virtue, to which, as a standard, we are bound to be conformed, what formerly (previously) delighted us by its false show of righteousness will become polluted with the greatest iniquity (most wicked actions); what strangely imposed upon us under the name of wisdom (what we mistakenly thought by our own estimation) will disgust by its extreme folly; and what presented the appearance of virtuous energy (right or good efforts) will be condemned as the most miserable impotence (totally inadequate). So far (so distant or removed) are those qualities in us, which seem most perfect, from corresponding to (in relation to or compared to) the divine purity.
Sunday, November 28, 2021
strengthening our trust through self denial
Because God is the best "thing" we can pursue, receive, partake of, and experience. By denying ourselves things we normally find comforting, we focus instead on the God of all comfort.
Wednesday, September 30, 2020
Diligent vs undiciplined
Though God's love is the ¹same for all believers new and old, a highly gifted and disciplined person who comes to Christ - e.g. Saul the Pharisee who became Paul - will accomplish more for the Kingdom than a ²highly disordered and undisciplined person. Diligence, discipline, organization, and structure matters.
Christ's rejection of the Pharisees was not because of their discipline or standing, but because of their attitude towards their discipline and standing. They saw these as a means of salvation, i.e. salvation accomplished by them, not provided for them, and received as a gift.
Being disciplined or diligent in itself is not bad, but good. The question is why are we disciplined or diligent. Being disciplined and diligent always accomplishes more, not less. The issue is what drives our actions? What is our goal; what do we seek to accomplish through our discipline? Do we act to save ourselves or to honor God?
Feelings vs Faith
Waiting to feel motivated to work - e.g. I'll do it when it's convenient or when I feel like it - is undisciplined. It is acting according to our feelings that can be like a roller coaster. Beating your body into subjection is disciplined. It is acting in spite of feelings, in order to gain a good and better outcome. As the saying goes, no pain, no gain.
Doing what must be done to succeed is necessary to accomplish a task and also a choice, not a feeling. It is an act of faith and often contrary to feelings.
You must believe in the value and reward of discipline before you experience it. If we wait to feel like acting before we take action we may never act at all. Because we believe God honors diligence - and the outcome of diligence is better than being undisciplined - we take action. Faithful diligence always honors God over unfaithfulness.
Obedience is rarely driven by feelings, but in spite of them, by faith. Because we trust God and believe the outcome of diligence is better than the outcome of being undisciplined, we take action. A key to discipline is staying on task - keeping our eye on the prize - and not being easily pulled off.
In saying this we must also understand that no amount of effort and diligence will guarantee a particular outcome. God must bless our efforts if we are to succeed, but they are our efforts nevertheless. God will not bless ³inactivity. The wind must drive a sailboat but the sails must be up for the wind to catch them i.e. our actions must be driven by the Love-Spirit of God, but believing and receiving his love is our choice. We must raise the sails of faith to catch the wind of the Spirit.
So what do we do when we have a task God has clearly called us to - such as loving our neighbors as ourselves - but don't feel like it? We pray and ask God to give us the grace and strength to do what he has set before us. We must believe God exists and faithfully rewards those who seek him. Then we move forward by faith in obedience just as Christ did after asking the father to remove the cup of suffering and said, “...not my will but yours be done.”
A key to discipline is staying on task and not being easily pulled off. To do so, we must keep our eye on the ball. What is the ball? God himself in all his majestic glory and ecstasy and our partaking of Him.
Those things that are hardest to do but most necessary are the things that require us to pray the hardest for grace and faith to do them. It is at these times we experience our greatest weakness - i.e. need to depend on God - but also discover our greatest strength in Him.
Not feeling like doing something is not a reason to not act. The question is whether that something - our action - is honoring to God or not. If it is, we do it as an act of faith, not feelings.
For a further discussion on the importance of excellence click here.
For a discussion on the value of competition click here
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¹God's love for his children is not determined by our abilities or efforts. He loves all His children infinitely, without conditions. The more gifted person may accomplish more, but God's reward is based on the direction of our hearts, not our *character qualities or skills. Because of this, the widow's mite was more honoring to God than the larger gifts. As a result, the widow received a greater reward.
*Character quality and skills have to do with the amount of output or action not the motive behind them.
²One's gifts play a significant role as well. A gifted but undisciplined person is far less effective than a less gifted and diligent person.
³What about waiting on God? Where does it fit into this discussion? We wait on God when we don't know which direction God would have us go. We wait for his confirmation.
When it is clear what action is most honoring to God there is nothing to wait for, we simply press forward in dependence on God to give us the grace and strength to achieve what we are called to. Those actions clearly prescribed by God do not require waiting but simply faithful obedience.
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