We are designed both to love and be loved:
We are designed TO love. To love is a key part of what it
means to be in Gods image. It is
a central part of our make up; who we are, the way we were made.
But we were not designed to love independent
of the source of life and love. We can only love as God designed us
to, which is to be fully loved first.
Nevertheless when we are in Christ and truly believe we are loved, we do not need to think about loving others, we will love others (...IF you abide in me you WILL bear much fruit...). Loving
others is what we will do if and when we are fully connected with the
Creator. It is not something we have to force, it is simply who we are when we
are plugged into Infinite love.
If we find unloving attitudes within us the
solution isn't to grit our teeth and will ourselves to love others more,
it is to believe and receive his love and let it transform us and make us lovely/loving.
Do we play no part in this process? Are we
simply passive? No we are fully engaged in receiving God's love. We receive
God's love by faith-which is our "work." This is harder than we might think.
Faith is a posture of humility. We don't like
being humble, we prefer to be our own god, to be our own source, to think we
can be all we need to be on our own when we cannot and were never
intended to.
Christ said without him we can do nothing.
"...I am the vine; you are the branches.
Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart
from me you can do nothing..." - Jesus - Joh 15:5
When we are loved, we act differently (love
others). When we see ourselves differently, as beloved children and not
worthless condemned sinners, we act differently, lovely. When we know at the core of our being we are fully loved it shifts our self perception so significantly that we treat others
differently. We see ourselves as significant/valuable and we therefore in
turn treat others as significant/valuable. This change of behavior is
not forced, but the fruit of our seeing ourselves as God's beloved children.
It is only when we do not receive and
experience God's love that we focus elsewhere, on self-love
to fill the void. In a word we are selfish.
We are also designed to be loved by God.
When God's love is not in us and filling us, we are empty. When this
void is filled with his love it frees us from the need to self-love and enables
us to do what we were designed to do which is to love others.
This is why we find great joy in loving
others. It is who we were designed to be.
When we have great love for others we
cannot take credit because
1. God made us this way
2. It can only happen when we are fully loved
ourselves
3. This kind of love only comes from God who
is love.
We are naturally designed to love. But we only
do so when we are loved. Nevertheless, when we are loved, we do not have to
think about how to love others, it simply happens when we act in faith believing we are loved because this is the way we were
designed. This is part of what it means to be made in God's image.
When
this occurs we cannot take credit for being this way because it can only happen
when we are fully loved ourselves and this kind of love only comes from God who
is love.
#love
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