However, that doesn't mean there is not a good reason for His infinite love for us. There is a major reason. He values and therefore loves us because we are like him - in His image.
This has nothing to do with what we do but with who we are. Who God made us to be, not our trying to make ourselves more acceptable and loveable to Him or others.
This is why He loved us before we lifted one finger for Him. In fact even while we were still in our state of rebellious distrust of Him.
"...but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us..." - Romans 5:8
Have you ever scratched your head wondering why he would value and love us while we were still in a state of rebellious distrust? It is because our rebellion didn't cancel out or erase our being like God, it only marred it - though severely.
This capacity for infinite love never went away; it only ceased to function properly. In our broken and spirituality-blind condition, we now long for the wrong things - instead of the only true thing that can fill our longing for love - because we are blind to the true Source of love - i.e. our Creator.
Our being in God's image is vital to how God sees us and who we are. This means there is good reason for Him to love us i.e. because of who we are, not what we do.
This also happens to be how God loves us and enjoys a relationship with us. God doesn't ⁵demand our obedience in exchange for His love. He delights in it. We are this way because God is this way. We are in his image.
In order for him to have this kind of love relationship with us we had to be like him as much possible without actually being him.
"...but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us..." - Romans 5:8
"...But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—..." - Ephesians 2:4-5
This resulted in our spiritual sight and sense going dormant (until His Spirit opens our eyes). We are now broken and blind to seeing God's infinite worth, beauty, and love. The Bible describes this as being spiritually blind and dead to God.
But our capacity for love, light, and life from God didn't go away and is fully intact - we are still like God - even when we don't trust Him i.e. we still long to love and be loved. We are hard-wired for love if you will, because God is love and we are like Him.
God values and loves our being like Him because we still have the capacity to fully partake of the community of love that God is as Father and Son in, by, and through the Spirit.
A recap and summary
Our being in God's image is vital to how God sees us and who we are. This means there is good reason for Him to love us i.e. because of who we are, not what we do.
We are not just rebellious - aka "dirty rotten sinners." This is only half the story - ultimately the far lesser half - once we accept his offer. The more important half is we are still also like God with the infinite capacity to fully engage, delight in, and commune with the infinite and experience His infinite love and joy!!!
Being like God has nothing to do with what we do (our good deeds) for others (God and other bearers of His image) - as far as being in good standing with Him - but has to do with something about us - i.e. who we are, not what we do.
Being like God has nothing to do with what we do (our good deeds) for others (God and other bearers of His image) - as far as being in good standing with Him - but has to do with something about us - i.e. who we are, not what we do.
God's love has nothing to do with something that comes from us or is offered by us - i.e. something we do in an attempt to earn His love.
Our only requirement is to recognize that Christ did everything necessary to fully restore us to His Father and accept this as a free gift (the essence of grace).
Do you receive this? If you only know this in your head but haven't fully believed it, simply recognize He did everything necessary to restore you so He can pour out His love on you. A love He already has for you. Because nothing you can do will restore you to God...nothing - not your abilities or deeds!!!
Accept His offer of complete restoration. If you are sincere in accepting and receiving His offer of perfect love, He will immediately restore you 100% legally now and ²completely upon His return.
"The Spirit and the Bride say, 'Come.' And let the one who hears say, 'Come.' And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price (you can't buy it or earn His acceptance of you)." - Revelation 22:17
For God to have a relationship with us in the same way the Father and the Son have with each other, we had to be like him in one essential way i.e. we had to be able to receive and return love to God like God does between and among the Father and Son, in, by, and through the Spirit - i.e. God IS love. Love is the central and essential core of who God is!!! We are like Him i.e. we are hard wired for this same love. But love for God first, not just between each other. Our love for others must flow out of our love for God. This is why the greatest commandment is to love God first, then our neighbors.
Does God need anything from us? No! He has Himself.
But when we say he loves us without conditions, that is not to say he doesn't have longings and desires for us and from us. He yearns to commune with us. Why? Because we are like God and God is love. He is the source of love, life, and all things and knows our greatest meaning, purpose, and joy is found only in Him!!
James 4:5 says:
"Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, 'He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us' ”?
Nevertheless, His love for us is without conditions i.e. no deeds are required from us in order for His love to be set on us.
This is possible only because Christ fulfilled all the conditions ³necessary for him to love us freely and fully. Even to the point that the Father loves us in the very same way He loves His only eternally begotten Son. Jn 17:23.
"I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me."
So does our love and pursuit of God matter since it's not required?
While there should never be expectations or conditions put on us for the gifts freely given to ⁴us or on others for the gifts we gladly give them, it is legitimate to enjoy and eagerly anticipate the appreciation from others for those gifts.
When gratitude is shown for the gifts we graciously receive, it delights the giver because they know their gift (and love) is not just accepted but also enjoyed and appreciated.
This reminds us of the 10 lepers that Christ healed and only one returned and showed gratitude. As a result, Christ engaged him further because he demonstrated by returning to Christ that he appreciated what Christ did. Lk 17:12-19.
To hope for and enjoy someone else's appreciation for what we give them is different than ⁵demanding their gratitude.
Does God need anything from us? No! He has Himself.
But when we say he loves us without conditions, that is not to say he doesn't have longings and desires for us and from us. He yearns to commune with us. Why? Because we are like God and God is love. He is the source of love, life, and all things and knows our greatest meaning, purpose, and joy is found only in Him!!
James 4:5 says:
"Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, 'He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us' ”?
Nevertheless, His love for us is without conditions i.e. no deeds are required from us in order for His love to be set on us.
This is possible only because Christ fulfilled all the conditions ³necessary for him to love us freely and fully. Even to the point that the Father loves us in the very same way He loves His only eternally begotten Son. Jn 17:23.
"I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me."
So does our love and pursuit of God matter since it's not required?
While there should never be expectations or conditions put on us for the gifts freely given to ⁴us or on others for the gifts we gladly give them, it is legitimate to enjoy and eagerly anticipate the appreciation from others for those gifts.
When gratitude is shown for the gifts we graciously receive, it delights the giver because they know their gift (and love) is not just accepted but also enjoyed and appreciated.
This reminds us of the 10 lepers that Christ healed and only one returned and showed gratitude. As a result, Christ engaged him further because he demonstrated by returning to Christ that he appreciated what Christ did. Lk 17:12-19.
To hope for and enjoy someone else's appreciation for what we give them is different than ⁵demanding their gratitude.
This also happens to be how God loves us and enjoys a relationship with us. God doesn't ⁵demand our obedience in exchange for His love. He delights in it. We are this way because God is this way. We are in his image.
In order for him to have this kind of love relationship with us we had to be like him as much possible without actually being him.
For a further discussion on why God loves rebels but not rebellion click here
Are we rebels against God? Click here
For a further discussion on the solution to our rebellion click here.
For a further discussion on why God delights in our love click here.
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¹Who met them? Christ!!! For only He could, not us!
³this is necessary because we fail to. No one fulfills the greatest commandment to love God with everything we are and have. Do you? I certainly don't!
⁴ Who is "us." Is it humanity in general or us who have trusted Christ. It is both. God values all his image bearers by virtue of them being like him. But only those who accept his offer of restoration actually participate in and experience that love as we are designed to.
However because He is love he delights in our entering into and participating in his love. He seeks for - "requires" - us to love him because he knows that is where we are most complete and find our greatest joy.